FORGIVE YOURSELF

Looking in the mirror

Saw the scars of the past on my face

It was all my fault

If only I had fought harder

If only I had ran quicker

If only I wasn't such a quieter

If only I could turn back the hand of time

Then I will be still beautiful

With no scar on my face

All these run through the minds of millions

All over the world

All these regrets from the past

All the pain forever last

Let them go

Forgive yourself

That the scars might vanish

And beauty be established

Be happy with yourself

For it is what you owe yourself

People cannot be owing and you owing yourself

Forgive yourself

For you owe yourself that.

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