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HOW TO SUSTAIN A FRIENDSHIP RELATIONSHIP - 6 IMPORTANT WAYS. It is very easy to become friends but it is often difficult to remain friends.  Friendship should be a relationship based purely on love, care and goodwill. Love in this sense entails one without expectations.  Have you found yourself in a situation where you have no clue on how to sustain this friendship or you have no idea of how to reciprocate this beautiful vibe coming from a friend towards you? Then this article is for you. "A friend in need is a friend in deed" . This is an ancient saying which we all have at your finger tips but find really difficult to practice. A larger percentage of today's friendships are mostly "business". Business in the sense that the two are just friends for the gain of it. This is no true friendship as this quickly ends as the gain ends. To be able to sustain a friendship relationship, there are various lifestyle practices which you must abide by. These practices are ...

 TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS/FRIENDSHIPS Sometimes it is okay to fight for what you love, okay to give it your best shot but okay too to recognize certain limits and boundaries on how much you are ought to give in sustaining a relationship.  Friendship in itself talks about being an extra set of hands, an extra shoulder and an extra soul. It is a beautiful thing when done in love. This is because as humans, we all need each other, but certain issues arise due to incompatibility and lack of respect and loyalty in keeping friendships. These issues could be minor or major depending on how it is handled and if badly handled could result in a worse case scenario: Dissolution of such. It is okay to fight or argue about random issues once in a while. This is because we are all different and unique just as our fingerprints are unique, so, we have divergent personalities and this results in differing opinions sometimes. When two people come together in any form of relationship, this ...

Have you ever had some feeling for someone? A lingering and uptight warmth for a crush or you fell deeply in love with a  friend? Unrequited love or love that isn't mutual is a painful emotional experience, and no body would wish to undergo such distress. Unrequited love can come in different ways ranging from: The desire for someone who is unavailable Lingering feelings for an ex after a breakup Rooting for a someone who doesn’t feel the same way People in other relationships having mutual feelings Unrequited love can look different across different scenarios.  How to spot this case scenario: Unrequited loves spans on different scenarios and these are some few keys that show that you are in this unrequited love's ship: Lack of interest in progressing what you already had:  Hey, I know how much you want this to reach the heights you've imagined but the other party just seems so uninterested in moving this ship along. There is a lack of interest which also show up in the e...

There is this feeling that accompanies re-validation or simply assurance of ones worth and value. In relationships and also in simple friendships, this vibe of re-validation serves basically as a morale boost and without its constant practice, the onset of low self-worth begins to creep in, and we don't want that, do we? In marriage, it is also important that you constantly remind him or her how much they mean to you and how much of a value they have added to your life. This is not some mantra or stereotypical thing but due to the fact that we are humans, this is one thing that makes us human too! It is true that you actually hold them in high esteem but it doesn't have to end in knowing, it should also be expressed in not just actions but in words also. Words hold a powerful control over the mind and can be used to both sedate or inflict terrible emotional wounds. So, when next he/she comes to you with such concerns, don't treat it as something hilarious and unnecessary be...

My heart on a balance, hangs; will you tilt it towards break point or let it settle on the petals of your love? For this heart though shadowed by the hollow you left, waits patiently for the warmth of your grace to lighten this pale blue soul, again.